Late last year, I wrote about how my roommate and I accidentally overtipped our doormen. Well, this extreme generosity was not a one time occurrence. Today, I overtipped our cleaning lady.
Our apartment had been in pretty bad shape. Embarrassingly dirty, to be quite honest. A half hour into the cleaning job, the cleaning lady’s daughter showed up to help out. Yeah. The lady needed reinforcement. A couple hours later, they wrapped up and she told me the total would be $70. I gave her a folded up wad of cash containing $90. Percentage-wise, it was a pretty big tip (~29%). But for the effort it took the two of them to clean up the microwave explosions, crumb spills, bathroom grime, and general accumulation of dust, I thought that a $20 bump was reasonable.
But apparently, the cleaning lady herself didn’t agree. 10 minutes after she left I heard a knock at the door. When I answered, she asked me to confirm how much I had given her, implying that she herself was shocked to leave and find $90 in her hand. Unable to bring myself to back into a smaller tip, I sent her on her way with the full amount.
I’m afraid of what sort of dangerous precedent we’ve inadvertently set here. Next thing you know, I’ll be handing benjis to the dog walker. And I don’t even have a dog!
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2 responses so far ↓
Ryan // Mar 9, 2008 at 5:07 pm
Two possibilities:
1) Is it possible that your place was so bad that she came back because she felt you under-tipped?
b) You have the sweetest cleaning lady ever. She actually came back to ask if you accidentally gave her an extra $20.
I almost never think it is inappropriate to over tip. What means little to you can mean much for another.
On a similar note, I was at a function the other night in which I was sitting at a table and having a conversation with Donny Deutsch. I came so close to straight-up asking him for a million dollars. I mean, what’s it to him? He has four hundred of `em.
sarah // Mar 25, 2008 at 1:26 pm
a dangerous precedent!!
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